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A mammogram is not nearly enough

24 Oct

The Wellness Bitch is excited to welcome to the blog today Maureen McDonnell, a registered nurse with a strong interest in helping reverse the escalating number of children affected by chronic illnesses. After coordinating the Defeat Autism Now! Conferences for ten years, Maureen joined forces with Jill Urwick to form “Saving Our Kids, Healing Our Planet.” Her post is a real WAKE UP CALL for women, and men who love women, this Breast Cancer Awareness Month.

By Maureen H. McDonnell R.N.

I know some people like to wait until all the medical research has been done, the evidence is indisputable, and their physician conveys guidelines endorsed by the American Cancer Society or the AMA before making any changes to their lifestyle or diet. 

Personally, I don’t have the time or the inclination to wait!   Not when 1 in every 8-9 women is developing breast cancer, and not when good friends, colleagues and neighbors are being diagnosed way too frequently.

My sister (who has lost several close friends to breast cancer) lamented recently “it’s not a matter of ‘if’ anymore, it’s a matter of ‘when!’”  Being Irish, stubborn, and a strong believer in the idea that there’s always more we can learn and do to optimize our health, I refuse to accept this doomsday philosophy.  Knowledge about health is power, and being proactive about preventing illness (even when we and our physicians don’t have all the answers) is the smartest choice we can spend our time and money on.

Before I review what we can do to prevent breast cancer, I’d like to say to those women who have already developed the disease …Please don’t feel guilty.  First of all, illness is not always  preventable and second, other than the typical suggestions we read about (such as don’t  smoke, drink less alcohol, eat healthy fats), much of the information that is coming out now for preventing breast cancer we just didn’t have access to a short time ago.  

Additionally, despite billions of dollars spent on research, the medical establishment still doesn’t know the exact causes of breast cancer nor do they understand the specific interplay between genetic factors, environmental toxicity, hormones and diet and why some women are more vulnerable than others.

What comes to mind when you think about breast cancer prevention besides monthly self-breast exams and routine mammograms?  

I, too, had to think for a moment when I asked myself that question. Because although the above screening techniques are essential methods for early detection of an already existing tumor (and therefore can improve the prognosis), they only find the abnormality or problem once it occurs.  They don’t actually prevent breast cancer.

Given the current statistics, the question that begs to be answered is: What more can we do to prevent breast cancer from forming in the first place?

Let’s look at risk factors. 

Although 50% of women who develop breast cancer have no identifiable risk factors, there are several that we know of that increase one’s chances of developing breast cancer. 

  • Gender (obviously women develop it more often than men)
  • Age: the older you are, the higher the risk (to a certain age),
  • Family or personal history of breast cancer
  • Having dense breast tissue,
  • Long term estrogen exposure (meaning you started menstruation early and or experienced a late menopause),
  • Hormone Replacement Therapy (of the non-bio-identical type)
  • Not carrying pregnancy to term (When a woman carries to term, she has higher levels of progesterone in the last 2 trimesters which cause breast cells to mature.   The more mature breast cells are, the less likely they are to develop cancer).
  • Radiation ( including chest xray and mammograms )
  • Heritage Ashkenazi  Jews (1 in every 300-600).
  • A heavy animal based non-organic diet
  • Environmental pollution
  • Stress
  • Smoking
  • Genetics:  BRCA-1 gene mutation: > risk by 57% risk  BRCA 2: > risk by 49%

Sounds a bit dismal, but here’s the good news:

The American Cancer Society says that 33 percent of all cancers are related to diet and physical activity issues.  Other studies, however, have found that 50 percent of cancers are preventable with regular exercise and healthy eating habits.  An even more optimistic view comes from Dr. Elizabeth Vaughn, MD, an integrative physician from Greensboro, NC who estimates up to 90% of cancers are preventable.

Part of the problem lies in the fact that the information coming out of our leading cancer institutes such as the American Cancer Society is too vague and focused on early detection and not prevention. 

It’s time for women to look beyond these conventional guidelines to more cutting-edge research and concepts in order to develop effective strategies for preventing this illness.  Let’s examine the difference between these two perspectives by comparing a few of the suggestions from the American Cancer Society with recommendations from credible alternative/progressive health care providers who advocate prevention.

Statements from the American Cancer Society regarding chemicals, pesticides and the relevance of organic and genetically modified food:

“Whether or not environmental chemicals that have estrogen-like properties (such as those found in some plastic bottles or certain cosmetics and personal care products) increase breast cancer risk is not clear at this time. If there is an increased risk, it is likely to be very small. Pesticides and herbicides can be toxic when used improperly in industrial, agricultural, or other occupational settings. Although vegetables and fruits sometimes contain low levels of these chemicals, overwhelming scientific evidence supports the overall health benefits and cancer-protective effects of eating vegetables and fruits. At present, there is no evidence that residues of pesticides and herbicides at the low doses found in foods increase the risk of cancer, but fruits and vegetables should be washed thoroughly before eating.”
“No convincing evidence has shown that any additive at these levels causes human cancers.”
“At this time, no research exists to demonstrate whether (organic) foods are more effective in reducing cancer risk than are similar foods produced by other farming methods.”
“There is no evidence at this time that the substances found in bio-engineered (GMO) foods…. are harmful or that they would either increase or decrease cancer risk because of the added genes.”

Cutting Edge Approach: Compare this information with the concepts taught by James Biddle, MD (an integrative physician in Asheville, N.C.) in his presentation on breast health when he explained that there are over 80,000 chemicals in use in the US and less than 12% have been tested for safety in humans.  Some of these chemicals are referred to as Xeno-estrogens  (or “alien”) because they mimic our own estrogen in their capability to stimulate estrogen receptors in a dangerous way.  

Unlike the weak statement from the American Cancer Society, Dr. Biddle strongly suggests that women reduce their exposure to toxins (by using green cleaning and personal care products) and eating organically to avoid the damaging effects on breast tissue from hormone disrupting chemicals.

In addition to recommending adequate protein, he emphasizes the importance of eating more like a vegetarian (5 servings of veggies and fruit per day) along with healthy Omega 3 fats (flax oil, fish oil etc), high fibrous foods like whole grains and especially cruciferous vegetables including Brussels sprouts, broccoli, cabbage, cauliflower, kale.  He also suggests eating foods that have a lower glycemic-index (to avoid blood sugar spikes which can trigger an inflammatory response).  

It’s most important to eat organic dairy, Dr. Biddle, says because “every non-organic cow in this country has an estrogen pellet under the skin of its ear to get a 10 fold increase in milk production. The cows also excrete that estrogen into the milk.  To prevent infections of the udders, the cows are also given antibiotics.  So the resistant bacteria we are seeing that are not responding to even the strongest antibiotics are not just coming from antibiotics that physicians prescribe for humans, it’s due to the fact that 70-90% of the antibiotics used in the US are given to  livestock.”  (The overuse of antibiotics…that’s another article!)

Elizabeth Vaughn, MD suggests that the connection between toxins and breast cancer can’t be overemphasized: “Breast Cancer is the final stage of years of ongoing damage to the breasts from exposure to toxins and an impaired or overwhelmed immune system.”

The organizations we have placed in charge of our health are not responding quickly enough to the urgent need for cancer prevention solutions, and the recommendations they do give women are in many cases too weak, too vague, and too mainly focused on early detection.  It is up to us to reach beyond mainstream recommendations and seek out physicians, researchers and sources of information that emphasize prevention.   As women, we need to be better informed and proactive in our self-care so that more of us, as well as our sisters, mothers, daughters, aunts and friends, will be spared from developing this devastating disease.

This article is excerpted with permission from the author from “What More Can We Do Now to Prevent Breast Cancer?” originally published on www.sokhop.com

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Getting by

20 Oct

I was having a tough day the other day.

For those of you who don’t already know, I’m not just a wellness bitch, but I am also a mom to three young kids. I am a wife. And a business owner. And an active community member. I’m a daughter and a friend. I have a lot going on.

By choice, of course.

Most days, I’m thrilled with that choice. I like being active and involved. I see results in both my personal and professional lives by connecting with others.

But sometimes I just want to walk out the door, down the street, and hitch a ride to Jamaica.

Sometimes I want to bag my choices and stuff them in a drawer.

Sometimes I just want to get by.

You know what I mean, right?

For example:

I can’t deal with the noise level in the car so I let the kids watch the DVD player even though it’s reserved for long trips.

I let my kids fall asleep to the TV in my bed because I’m too exhausted to be the good mommy who reads stories and snuggles.

I pretend to be horny even when I’m not so it will go quickly and we can watch Mad Men together.

Breakfast for dinner.

Take out.

Tylenol.

Yelling.

Sweatpants.

Not really the woman I want to be.

When I was having a tough day the other day and made one of the above choices, my husband said, “Some days we need to just get by.”

He’s right.

But it’s too easy to get stuck in the habit of just getting by.

You’re going along, making choices simply to survive, simply to get through the moment or the day. And before you know it, all those ”just getting bys” turn into “the way it is.”

So, the WAKE UP CALL for today is: Go easy on yourself. Allow yourself time to get by. But when your days become littered with “getting bys,” you’re getting farther and farther away from the life you choose.

Declare an end date.

And begin again.

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Compassion

1 Oct

Contrary to what you might think, I actually have a lot of compassion for human beings.

And it’s through my love and compassion for people that I bitch about wellness.

I don’t, however, confuse compassion with silence or censorship. Nor do I associate bitchiness with complaint and cruelty. This is why I don’t tell people to their faces that I think they need to lose weight. Nor do I call out particular individuals who are struggling with health-related issues.

Admittedly, what I do here is demand your attention. And often times, I demand action. And I fully understand it’s not what you’re used to hearing.

You’re used to hearing: “It’ll be ok. You’re doing a great job.”

Not WAKE UP! Educate yourself!

You’re used to hearing: “Baby steps.”

Not WAKE UP! You’re killing yourself.

You’re used to reading blogs and articles that stroke your ego, give you a virtual hug, or tell you once again, the twelve-step answer to your life long chronic problem.

Not WAKE UP! The time to make a change is now.

When I say WAKE UP, I intend for you to ask yourself, “Is this the life I want to be living? Is this the body I want to be walking around in? Is this the state of health I want to be in from now until I am in the grave?”

I intend for you to ask yourself, “Do I want to let pharmaceutical companies run my country, micromanage my health care system, and mess with my family’s health?”

Or, “Do I still want to be complaining about my sex life 10 years from now?”

Or, “Do I want my child growing up to be an addict? Or obese? Or Type 2 diabetic?”

And, trust me, if saying it nicely worked, you wouldn’t be still asking yourself (or your shrink) the same questions year after year, day after day.

The people who already get this are already wellness bitches just like me: Moms of autistic kids; Moms of vaccine-injured kids; Women who have been struggling with IBS for years; People who have been sent to the ER from side effects of prescription drugs; People who have been given inept and incorrect advice from their doctors; Parents of children who are experiencing puberty at age eight; People whose children are put on psychotropic drugs for behavioral issues.

And, maybe if you are so concerned about bad language, you have been fortunate enough to not yet have to be a wellness bitch.

Some of us aren’t so lucky.

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Someday

29 Sep

Someday I will run a marathon.

Someday I will train for one those MS or AIDS rides.

Someday waking up at 6 am to work out will be easy.

Someday I will completely give up coffee for green tea.

Someday I will have enough money to hire a personal trainer.

Someday I will switch to a raw foods diet.

Someday I will have buff abs.

Someday I will have a buff ass.

Someday I will write a best-selling book.

Someday I will be on the Today Show (and for doing something GOOD, not criminal.)

Someday I will link back to this post and say “I told you so.”

Someday I will thank you for supporting me and loving me on the journey.

Love,

The Wellness Bitch

P.S. Someday will be sooner rather than later.

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Crappy job

22 Sep

In this tough economic environment, I know that many people feel relieved “just to have work.” That being said, I often wonder about the price certain members of the workforce have to pay “just for having work.”

There are some really disturbing scenes in the film Food, Inc. highlighting the emotional and physical toll on employees of the meat and farming industries. I’m thinking about the guys (many illegal immigrants) in the slaughterhouses who are exposed to toxic chemicals and conditions every day. Or those who have to ram chickens into teeny tiny cages or rip their heads off. That’s a crappy job.

But those aren’t the only crappy jobs. I think about my former cleaning lady who is exposed to harsh chemical cleansers every day of the week…and who cleaned houses during her entire pregnancy. (I was sad, but not surprised, when her baby started getting symptoms of reactive airway diseases as young as three weeks old.) At least at my house, she was using green cleaners, but I was the anomaly.

Or the guy who works the toll booth on the New Jersey turnpike…exposed to grimy air and noise pollution all day long. While many of the toll booth workers lament the success of EZ Pass (which reduces job openings for them), I hope they see the long term positive effects of leaving a job that, quite literally, stinks..

My friend Shan is a cosmetologist. It took a life threatening WAKE UP CALL for her to realize how her job was killing her. All that toxic shit in hair products and skin care? It’s bad enough if you are using it at the salon every now and again, but imagine the men and women who are exposed to it every day. (BTW, Shan is now waking people up to wellness by sharing her story and has created a non-toxic line of skin care. She’s also now known as the “holistic hairdresser.”)

Other people I feel bad for:

Carpet cleaners

Gas station attendants

Fast food clerks

Coal miners

Airport personel (what do you call those guys who wave planes in?)

Subway fixers

Oil rig guys

Exterminators

Pig farmers

And, of course, the people who work with, or for, an asshole.

Please feel free to add your crappy job to the comments section. We promise to feel bad for you.

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Shit storm

7 Sep

Do you know how many people find The Wellness Bitch doing a search for “shit?”

A lot.

Let me give you a random sampling of search string terms people use to find us:

Mucousy poop

Shitting like crazy

Foul-smelling shit

Dairy and gluten make me crap all the time

Runny shit after eating McDonald’s

Shit your brains out

Shit in mouth (Now, I really don’t know why you are searching this or how The Wellness Bitch applies, but WELCOME!)

Isn’t Google awesome? You can find anything and anyone on the Internet. Community is everything nowadays.

Just think. For years, we were all shitting our brains out, yet none of us could figure out why or communicate with each other. Doctors didn’t know what to do with us beyond prescribing innards twisting meds or sending us to a shrink. You thought you were alone and crazy. Or a freak of nature. You avoided cheese and crowded trains and eating cheese on crowded trains.

But, now you have a resource and a friend in The Wellness Bitch.

Don’t be embarrassed or afraid. I don’t know your name or where you live.

All I know is that pooping is often a painful process for you. But help is on the way. Continue sifting through this blog. Something will likely resonate and put you on a path to a less painful, less stinky tomorrow.

Unless you want to know more about “shit in mouth.” That I can’t help you with.